Am I being too "Hard"??

Once upon a time, there was one told me that I'm a very "hard" people..

To be exact, should say when I talk, I will only express what I want to tell and never take in what people's feeling. She said I'm harsh and sometimes, it's hurtful...

I'm hard as in I dont take in people's feeling and advice. In another way, should be "hard neck"(硬颈)?? After my own "fan xing period", I came out vf a conclusion..

Perhaps I am.. As in ignoring people's feeling when I'm expressing my own ideas and opinion. I think I always come out with a different comment or opinion that it might sumtimes make the people not-so-happy with my "talks".

After a long while, I came out with a solution, I try not to express myself so much and try to listen what people say.. In the end, I failed.. Tat so called 'solution' only last for abt 1 or 2 weeks i guess? haha... So sorry for that and at last, I go back to the origin Joee as before.

Still, a better slightly improvement of that time was... I sensed better of people's 'dislike' of me. But somehow, ........ so wat?........ heck care.. as long as I do my work u do ur work... Dun lah cum n disturb me loh... But... is tat wat I wan?

I do realised that socialise is a very important skill required especially if u're working in office. N I do feel that my "ren yuan" is not so good bah.. However, I dont reli feel like changing myself for that.. I dont like it..

Should I reli change? Or I should remain the same like wat I'm doing now? Ignore all the facts that I sometimes is a very fussy people to be working with?

Just now, the gurl who answer a Q of : " do u thk i'm a 难相处的人??"

After she gave me the answer exactly the same as once upon a time that people told me, she said, " U mayb not a good person to work with, but perhaps u're a good fren?"

I'm not sure is dat consider as some sort of consolation "prize" for me..

How do u al think?? Do u thk i'm a 难相处的人???

* I've addi recovered from high fever.. I'm finally a healthy work lady again.. Thumb up for me.. ;p